Sugar Baby Allowance … Here’s Our 3 Exclusive Secrets to Negotiate Your Sugar Daddy Allowance
There is one topic of conversation which is necessary but gives Sugar Babies the jitters bringing it up to their Sugar Daddy/Sugar Momma.
Would you like to hazard a guess as to what it is? Yes, it is the title of this article. This has probably crossed your mind at some point or other, but you’ve pushed it to the very back of your thoughts since it makes you uncomfortable.
It would be all good and dandy if your Sugar Daddy/Sugar Mama is someone who brings it up first or showers you with gifts voluntarily. However, it is important for you to know how to go about negotiating an allowance if you aren’t already receiving something regularly from your Sugar Daddy/Sugar Mommy.
After all, isn’t that why you wanted a Sugar Lifestyle?
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No matter how awkward or anxious you might feel thinking of bringing up the money talk with your Sugar Daddy/Sugar Mummy, you need to embrace it because it is something which needs to be done sooner or later.
Better sooner than later, so that both arrangement seekers won’t have wasted time and effort if a compromise can’t be reached. You don’t want to seem desperate or needy and end up making your potential Sugar Daddy/Sugar Momma run for the hills.
Then there is that endless myriad of factors which go into deciding an allowance, which often makes you end up questioning your self-worth; which brings us to our first and most important point.
Sugar Babies new to the game often find their self-worth taking a hit when they meet Sugar Daddies/Sugar Mamas who haggle their price down by comparing them to other Sugar Babies they’ve been with; or the other options they currently have. “The other girl has a bigger rack than you and she’s only asking for $xxx, why are you asking for more?” An allowance does not define your worth and you should not let it do so. Don’t put a “discount” on yourself just because you see parts of yourself you deem as flaws; these flaws might make you endearing to some people, you just never know.
Be patient when finding a Sugar Daddy/Sugar Mommy because the hagglers are just as common as the genuinely wealthy Sugar Daddies/Sugar Mummies. Often those who haggle are just men/women who have a bit of spare cash lying around, and they want to have a good time with a pretty girl/handsome guy. They have to spend that bit of cash wisely; Thus, the need to degrade you by comparing you to other women/men! They have to get the most bang out of their buck because they don’t have very much of it.
This is however, different from Sugar Daddies/Sugar Mommas who are offering a different type of compensation, for example rather than giving you regular small gifts he/she prefers to spring for a luxurious gift on special occasions such as birthdays and festive holidays. You do have to tell him/her though, for example, if you prefer a regular allowance of cash which might total up to less than that Hermes bag he bought you for Christmas.
At the end of the day you have to put yourself first. If what you’re receiving makes you happy, then all’s good. If not, you have to speak up about it. You should also consider the time and effort you’re spending on your Sugar Daddy/Sugar Mama; if you’re lazy and do the minimal for your Sugar Daddy/Sugar Mommy, don’t expect a generous allowance in exchange. If your laziness hits a toll you just might get “fired”. Be a hardworking Sugar Baby and make sure that you get out of it what you’re putting in.
It might seem really obvious after you read it, but it’s surprising how many Sugar Babies don’t know this: Sugar Daddies/Sugar Mummies are not mind readers! If you’ve never told him/her about your sugar baby allowance expectations, don’t get your knickers all in a twist when you aren’t getting what you want. He/She might think cash gifts are what you want when in reality you want luxury goods instead but have never communicated it to him/her.
When you do bring up the subject, be positive and self-assured that what you’re asking for is justified. Sugar Daddies/Sugar Mommas are used to dealing with people, if you have the slightest doubt in yourself it will show through and when he/she detects it, he/she will question himself/herself if you’re worth it when even you are doubting yourself. Just think of it as your parent and you’re back in middle school asking for an allowance from them. Practice doing it in front of the mirror, or whenever you have time alone. The more you practice, the more natural it’ll feel when the real situation crops up.
Don’t talk in parcel tongue, don’t talk in riddles, don’t try dropping subtle hints when you’re trying to negotiate an allowance. Your Sugar Daddy/Sugar Mama probably has a lot of things to think about already, don’t waste his/her time by making him/her decipher your puzzles. Be direct with what you want, he/she will appreciate that you do that. In the long run you’ll save everyone’s time if you find out early that your sugar daddy allowance expectations don’t match.
If this is your first time being a Sugar Baby, choose your words carefully and write out what you intend to say to your Sugar Daddy/Sugar Mommy. Memorize, rehearse, and go over your script repeatedly til you can say it perfectly without stuttering or stumbling. Limit the use of “uhhhs”, “umms” and other filler sounds in your final speech, which make you seem less sure of yourself.
Take the time to fill out your profile on Sugar Daddy Websites properly. Usually there is a space or an option to fill in the expected lifestyle/allowance you desire. If the sugar baby site/app you are using does not allow this, switch to HappyMatches.com instead. Ensure that you fill this in so that visitors to your profile know what you’re expecting. This will prevent awkward situations where you’ve spent much considerable effort on someone, only to find out your potential Sugar Daddy/Sugar Mummy either can’t afford, or is not willing to pay your price.
Last but not least, remember that you cannot and should not rely on Sugar Dating as a primary “job”. You should always have backup methods to support yourself, so that you won’t be stuck in unwanted situations where you’re forced to do things you’re not comfortable with, because you don’t have any other source of income.