How to Be a Sugar Daddy? Here’s 4 Exclusive Proven Secrets on How to Be a Good Sugar Daddy and to Attract Your Dream Sugar Babies …
You’ve decided to venture into the mystical world of Sugar Dating. You’re in the midst of looking for, or have already found an attractive and amazing lady/guy whom you get along well with.
Once confirmed, you’ve both already decided on a mutually beneficial arrangement where you talked out and agreed upon the relationship terms between the two of you.
Now what is left for you to do to become the Best Sugar Daddy you can be? Whether or not you’ve been a Sugar Daddy before, you can read on to find out how to make your beautiful Sugar Baby gem feel valued like the prize that she/he is.
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In any case – Seriously, you being a Good Sugar Daddy is as simple as learning ABC (not being cliche here)! All you need is to know how to, and to put in the necessary effort to be an amazing companion and create a fantastic romance for that deserving Sugar Baby of yours.
Just follow these 4 proprietary steps, and we guarantee you that you are on your way to becoming the Best Sugar Daddy there can ever be! …
A good Sugar Daddy knows his way around words. They charm and lavish their women/men with praise when the time calls for it. They are able to establish a comfortable level of conversation during each meeting.
During your initial meets, make the conversation all about her/him and make her/him feel special; people love talking about themselves! In the process you might also be able to find out more about her/him which will help you during the arrangement negotiations for your mutually beneficial relationship.
Respect is key in being a good Sugar Daddy. He needs to listen, assimilate and show respect for what his Sugar Baby has shared with him. In a Sugar Relationship, people might view the Sugar Baby as the party without the power to negotiate or receive basic “rights” in relationships.
This is clearly a mistaken belief and absolutely the wrong attitude. Neither party is beholden to the other, and both need to do their part to make things work. At the end of the day, remember that you are in a genuine relationship, and not a purchase. You are not buying your Sugar Baby; it is about being there for each other: a companionship and an exchange of needs and wants, rather than a commercial transaction.
Having been young once himself, a Sugar Daddy should know that he is dealing with young adults and these people are prone to making mistakes. A good Sugar Daddy is not going to lose his temper and abuse his authority in the relationship because of mistakes the Sugar Baby might have made.
If he deems the mistakes minor enough, he should just give her/him a stern warning and forgive her/him the first few times the Sugar Baby makes mistakes. He should also know when to let the Sugar Baby go when it seems like their lifestyles are not compatible, and it’s a burden on both parties to continue the Sugar Romance. As with all relationships, some are meant to last and flourish, whilst others just may not.
As a successful career man, you are probably aware of what is the fastest way to get blacklisted off contact lists, and to gain a terrible reputation: Breaking Promises.
It is the same in a Sugar Arrangement. You cannot simply promise your Sugar Baby the world, and end up not delivering because you are expected to keep your word. You can’t blame your sugar baby for leaving you otherwise. A good Sugar Daddy’s word is as good as gold, and the Sugar Baby need not repeatedly remind him of his promises.
On the same topic of trust, the arrangement between the two parties should not be set in stone with regards to compensation. Simply talk about the limits and expectations, and work along those lines while making sure that both of you are on the same page.
Verbally agree on the boundaries of the Sugar Relationship for each individual and play it by ear. Writing things down in black and white will hurl the two of you into a stagnant relationship with no room to progress. You just have to trust each other that your partner will deliver, because a set agreement with rigid terms makes for a lazy and boring Sugar Romance.
Before you are anything else to your Sugar Baby, you shall be her/his friend.
Don’t rush into a sexual relationship too quickly; after all sex with a stranger will never be as great as sex with someone you are truly attracted to and have chemistry with as a person.
A good Sugar Daddy will be patient and wait for his Sugar Baby to feel sufficiently comfortable being with him. Eventually you might or might not end up having an intimate relationship with her/him, but there has to be some chemistry between the two of you; otherwise you are really better off hiring an escort or a prostitute.
You have to lead by example and show her/him what you believe a healthy Sugar Relationship should be like. This relationship isn’t all about you, you, you! Think about her/his feelings as well, and impart the wisdom of human relationships to your Sugar Baby.
The good Sugar Daddy knows that someday his Sugar Baby will want to progress with her/his life and stand on her/his own feet. He will find out her/his areas of interest and guide her/him to succeed. A Sugar Daddy who believes in always keeping his Sugar Baby by his side, out of fear that she/he leaves him, will never experience much satisfaction in the sugar bowl. Also, the relationship will never progress to something deeper and long term.
Don’t be arrogant. Don’t let yourself believe that because you are holding onto a fat bank cheque, that your Sugar Baby is obliged to stick around you. There will always be a man/lady more successful; if not nicer than you.
It is very likely that without your money, you could never have dated someone with her/his looks; so, you have to attempt to make yourself more likable to her/him. Yes, you might easily find a sugar baby to replace her/him, but if she/he was your first choice, it is unlikely you can find someone else of the same calibre.
This is where you have to tread the fine line between being nice and over-doing it. You don’t want your sugar baby to develop emotional over-attachment for you unless you are able to reciprocate. Depending on the type of relationship you are looking for, gently remind her on the grounds of your mutually beneficial relationship because you don’t want to hurt her/him in the long run.
The Sugar Arrangement should not just only around money. You have the money, and your Sugar Baby has the sweets. Build a genuine and sincere relationship, friendship, companionship and romance with each other. Both parties have, and know what the other wants and enjoys.
A Sugar Relationship should be about two people willingly satisfying each other’s needs and wants. Money is not a tool for blackmail and pressuring a Sugar Baby into doing things she/he doesn’t want to. It should be just like wanting to let someone know you appreciate them in your lives and expressing it through gifts, affection, time, effort and commitment.