How To Get Through A Breakup: Top 7 “Must-Follow” Best Practical Advice Ever on Getting Over a Breakup Fast with Minimal Pain
You’ve just broken up and you feel terrible about yourself, and all of a sudden you don’t know what to do with your life.
Especially for those of you who have broken up after a long term Serious Relationship, you might feel lost and confused as to what to do when you’re single again overnight.
There’s no definite right answer as to what you should do post-breakup, but there are some things you can do to help your healing process.
What are they? Let us find out together …
Getting over a breakup is never easy. So, how to handle a breakup?
Since we know BEST, let us also share with you our BEST (only the very best) breakup advice, to get you up on your feet again ASAP … Enjoy!
You suddenly find yourself will all this free time on your hands because the person who has been occupying most of your time is gone.
Often, people use this as an excuse to go crazy, but usually there’s a huge disparity between what you should do and what you feel like doing at the moment.
Especially when your mental state is compromised just after a breakup, don’t make any major decisions, don’t go about altering your appearance on a whim, don’t start any crazy flings and most of all, don’t go begging your ex to return to you.
In this vulnerable period of time, think twice, or even thrice before you do anything you might come to regret in the future (or even for your entire lifetime).
Give yourself at least a night, or in fact as much time as possible – ample time to reflect upon any major decision, before making that decision.
Simply don’t do (or decide) anything in a moment of rashness or emotional instability.
Don’t get us wrong, it is perfectly fine and normal to feel sad after a breakup.
However, what you should not be doing is to dwell in your sadness by constantly engaging in activities which you know will make you sad.
Don’t listen to sad songs while being shut in alone in your room, reminiscing the happy moments you had with your ex.
It’s okay to be sad, but don’t let the sadness consume you (i.e. the “entire” of you).
No phone calls, no texts, not even social media. Block them on all platforms (mobile, chat apps and social media accounts) – there is absolutely no reason for you not to do so.
No, your ex is not going to get into an accident with no other emergency contact but you.
Stop giving excuses to let yourself constantly cross over into his/her life if you want to get through this breakup ASAP.
No peeping or lurking on his/her social media platforms either.
You don’t want to be rekindling any unnecessary old flames.
Learn to cook, learn to play the piano, throw yourself into work, play video games, whatever.
Just keep yourself busy and make sure that your mind has no capacity to wander and think about useless things which will upset you.
When you’re busy doing other things, it will be less likely that you will find yourself staring into space missing your ex.
If keeping yourself busy doesn’t work, give yourself a hard smack so that all thoughts of your ex go flying.
No, please don’t. Just go about doing something you enjoy, and can totally indulge yourself in – forgetting everything else.
The worst thing you can do right after breaking up is to rush into a new relationship immediately.
You’ll inevitably compare the new person with your ex constantly, and that isn’t fair for them.
You might also feel false feelings on the rebound, and this won’t be good for your budding relationship some time later down the line.
Don’t return to places which the two of you often went to as a couple.
Don’t go to the same old restaurant you went to on date nights and order the same food you used to eat.
That’s just asking for trouble.
Sights, scents, tastes and sounds can be powerful triggers for memories, and the last thing you want to do is recollect the activities you took part in with your ex when you’re trying to forget them.
Try new places and activities!
It’ll be fun and help your healing process at the same time.
Go out for a fun night with your friends.
Party like a wild animal (but not too wild please, if you’re not into Hookup Culture).
Just don’t overdo it, and end up regretting a bunch of things the next day though.
But if you are willing and raring enough to go, and you really feel like releasing all your inhibitions, pent-up frustrations and want “revenge sex” – then by all means – no one’s here to judge you.
Go out and get em’, girl/guy! Find a Casual Date online on a Hookup App, in the club, bar or even among your acquaintances whom you fancy enough for a Booty Call, and give it to them like they’ve never seen (nor imagined you to be before)!
There’s no limits on you just for tonight, so go crazy and have all the fun you missed out on, while being in a Committed Relationship.
If you’re more of a quiet person, have a sleepover or a movie night with your closest buds, and binge on snacks and movies!
Are you at a loss of what to do, just after breaking up with your partner?
Follow this list of 7 excellent pearls of wisdom and practical advice, on how to deal with a breakup and how to get over a breakup.
Applying and practicing these steps, you’re set to break into smiles and laughter again!
And soar into a new realm of personal and emotional happiness and relief, and soon enough, before you even know it, you’ll be in the arms of someone you love once again!
In the meantime, to help you get over your current heartache even faster, if it helps you forget your previous someone faster – Go Out, and have some Casual Dating and Casual Hookup fun.
Enjoying yourself to the max, giving yourself the chance again to reach orgasmic highs, and having someone to embrace and connect romantically with – will definitely bring you to Cloud Nine!
(Last Updated: 27 June 2020)
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