How To Know If A Shy Guy Likes You: Top 10 Clear Obvious Signs on How to Tell If He Likes You

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How To Know If A Shy Guy Likes You: Top 10 Clear Obvious Signs on How to Tell If He Likes You

Guys alone are extremely hard to decipher when they like a girl and are trying to hide it.

Having the guy in question be an extremely shy one makes matters even harder to tackle.

Men have long found women to be enigmatic creatures, but women actually think the same way about men – they just don’t express their confusion as much.

A guy might be acting so “off” around you that you can’t decide at all if he’s acting weird because he’s interested in you or he plain hates your guts.

Hell will freeze over, before he’ll tell you outright that he likes you, if he’s a shy person.

How To Know If A Shy Guy Likes You

So, what’s a girl to do to know if a shy guy likes her?

Let us find out how in this article … Enjoy!

1. He can’t look you in the eye – (Obvious #4 Fact on How to Know if a Shy Guy Likes You)

It’s rather strange, isn’t it?

When guys like a girl, they normally want to spend every last waking moment gazing into her eyes.

However, the shy guy is a mysterious creature who can’t bear to even look into your eyes if he likes you!

He’s really, truly afraid that he’ll lose all train of thought and say or do something stupid in the process if he were ever to let himself be mesmerized by your gaze.

2. He’s forever a bag of nerves – (Top #1 Sign on How to Know if a Shy Guy Likes You)

When you observe him from a distance, he seems to be perfectly fine socializing with his friends.

However, the second you come close to him, he seems to lose all rational thought and blubber and trip over his own feet like an imbecile.

While the average guy would love for every opportunity to talk to their crush, he’d rather just revel in your beauty from a distance, because he becomes a nervous mess whenever you’re near!

3. He’s got two left feet

Along with the jitters comes the clumsiness.

Does he drop things when you’re hanging around him?

Does he bump into things or worse, does he trip over nothing whenever you see him?

He’s got his attention so focused on you that he can’t see anything else, which leads to his nervous bumbling around.

It could also be the nerves we mentioned earlier adding on to the big mess that he becomes when you approach him.

4. The sound of silence – (Best #3 Tip on How to Know if a Shy Guy Likes You)

He’s bright, bubbly, and super chatty when you see him in the hallway with his own friend group, but when you come into the same room as him or your groups of friends merge, he suddenly turns antisocial and clams up.

Shy guys don’t usually have the best self-confidence, so they’re convinced that whatever they say will sound lame to you, so they’re rather shut up while you’re around.

Even when they muster up enough courage to talk to you or have to do so out of necessity, their words come out in mis-formed sentences, or he stutters, and he shuts right back up after he says what needs to be said.

He might give off the impression that he hates you, or that of being someone really rude, but he’s really just nervous.

You can totally tell if you take a look at his eyes.

5. Middleman

Somehow or other, the two of you are texting or are friends or mutual followers on social media even though you don’t remember ever having a conversation with him in person or passing him your contact information.

You mention this to a few friends and one of them goes “Oh yeah, the other day __ asked for your Instagram/number”.

He totally wants to get to know you better but he can never summon up the courage to ask for your information by himself.

He figures if you get to know each other first while he has the privilege of hiding behind a screen, he has a better chance with you!.

6. He’s different in texts

When you’re texting, you guys get along like a house on fire.

However, in real life, it’s back to the same cold awkward situation.

It almost makes you think that you’re talking to a whole other person through text.

You have to understand that for shy people, it’s way easier to express what you truly feel or think without feeling too embarrassed via texting or messaging.

This method also gives him extra time for buffering while his mind goes blank the second he sees your name pop up on his display screen.

7. You see him everywhere

Now this might sound kind of stalkerish, but he seems to be everywhere you go.

He seems to know the places you frequent, and he’s always around somewhere when you’re there.

Don’t be too freaked out by this though! – He’s too shy to talk to you, so he’s just hanging onto every last opportunity he can get to see you.

Just a glimpse of you will have made his day.

8. He tries to find out about you – (Obvious #2 Sign on How to Know if a Shy Guy Likes You)

He gets along well with pretty much everyone else, but you.

Then your friend mentions that he’s been asking their group of friends if they know what you love to ear, what’s your favorite color, what music you listen to, what you do in your spare time, the list goes on.

This might sound borderline creepy, but if he’s talking to so many people about you, it’s unlikely that he has sinister intentions.

He just wants to find out more about you without asking you directly (because he’s too shy), to see if he’s someone who can make you happy.

When he gets his confidence up, he’ll take you on the best date ever because he knows what exactly makes you tick!

9. He’s up for anything you’re up for

While he may be cold and aloof around you, he’s always supportive of whatever you do, while he remains in the background.

If you suggest something for the school carnival, he voices out that it’s a good idea (though he doesn’t look at you after he says it).

When you say you want to go somewhere over the weekend with your mutual friends’ group, he will never fail to turn up.

No matter how boring or silly the things you want to try are, he’ll be willing to give it a go so that you can have your way.

10. You’re the only girl he ignores

You see him get along well with other girls.

You see him laugh and joke and seem to have a good time with them.

However, when it comes to you, there is only awkward silence to account for your time alone together.

You can sense his nerves in that he’s trying to come up with something to talk to you about, but his brain just can’t function because you’ve cast a spell on him.

Do the boy a favor and talk to him first!